Spirits see each other in varying degrees of brightness. The light a spirit detects is the reflection of spirituality and pureness which exists in the heart and body of a spirit. A spirit from the tenth level of heaven, Zabdiel, explains how the level of light within each spirit determines their place in the hierarchy of the spirit realm: Read More.
Law of Affinity
The Law of Affinity – How does it cause us to change our character for the better? This Divine Law places us with others who are like us. We live with those who share our good or bad characteristics. We soon learn that we prefer to be with those who treat us with respect and love. Hence, if we have treated others wrongly, we live with those who treat us the same as we have treated others – we soon learn the error of our ways. Click here to watch my YouTube video.
The Affinity of Spirits – Spirits of Like Mind Congregate Together. The Law of Affinity explains why some spirits rise to Heaven when they pass over from the physical world and why some spirits stay on earth or below. They are aligning themselves to spirits who think like they do. Click here to watch my YouTube video.
The spirits tell us that one could summarize the Doctrine of Spiritism as the Golden Rule. If you always follow the dictum, “Do unto others as you would have them do unto you”, you have achieved the lion’s share of what the spirit realm, and Jesus himself, have been trying to teach us for the last two or three thousand years. The problem is the majority of people ask themselves, why should I follow the Golden Rule? It may make my conscience feel serene, for a moment or two, but it sure as heck doesn’t put food on the table. Ignoring it put lots of food on the proverbial table and other luxuries as well. Read More.
In Spiritist literature, one of the Divine Laws is the Law of Affinity. It is revealed in The Spirits Book. The book was codified by Allan Kardec in the 1850’s. Allan Kardec didn’t write the book, he posed questions to high spirits. He employed multiple mediums throughout Europe to ask the same question, without knowledge of each other, and he only used the answer if the medium reported a similar answer as other mediums obtained.
One of the main drivers for the happiness of being a spirit in the levels of heaven is that you are with others who share your characteristics. The opposite is true of the Lower Zone or Umbral as it is called in Portuguese. Hence, the good are grouped with the good, loving, calm, serene, and caring while the souls who left their earthly bodies behind, but who couldn’t leave their earthly traits behind, such as envy, hatred, selfishness are also associated with their own kind.
The Law of Affinity is indirectly explained in multiple places in Kardec’s books, although I don’t recall seeing a succinct definition in one passage (those who may know of the correct location, please advise me). The passage which illustrates best the benefit of the Law of Affinity is the following:
980. Is the sympathic link which unites spirits of the same order a source of felicity for them?
“The union of spirits who sympathize in the love of goodness is one of their highest enjoyments, for they have no fear of seeing that union disturbed by selfishness. In worlds altogether spiritual, they form families animated by the same sentiment, and this union constitutes the happiness of those worlds, as in your world you group yourselves into categories, and experience pleasure in being thus brought together. The pure and sincere affection felt by elevated spirits, and of which they are the object, is a source of felicity, for there are neither false friends nor hypocrites among them.”
Man enjoys the first-fruits of this felicity upon the earth when he meets with those with whom he can enter into cordial and noble union. In a life of greater purity than that of the earth, this felicity becomes ineffable and unbounded, because their inhabitants meet only with sympathetic souls whose affection will not be chilled by selfishness. For love is life; it is selfishness that kills.
When you are with true friends, their encouraging attitude and love increases your own feeling of contentment and functions as a generator to send your own feelings back to the group. Thereby, collectively creating a positive feedback loop, elevating the entire collective. Sounds like heaven? It is.
This is why Jesus said of the entrance to heaven, “Strive to enter through the narrow door. For many, I tell you, will seek to enter and will not be able.” (Luke 13:24) Only those who have left behind the baser emotions and the quest for material wealth shall be allowed.
This makes sense because how would the dynamics of a close-knit group change with a selfish, power-hungry addition who thought of the others as sheep waiting to be fleeced. The answer is that the group will quickly dissipate or dissolve into a rancorous mob instead of a force for positive achievement. Therefore, to join the club (enter that narrow door) you have to grow your spiritual side and discard your quest to dominate and take from others just to satisfy your personal desires.
Therefore, if after you discard your physical body and yearn to live in a comfortable, loving, and warm environment, then you must demonstrate your ability to contribute. The proof of your worth lies within the life you lead. Your life, unbeknownst to you, isn’t a series of happenstance and random events, but a carefully laid out plan, designed to educate and test you.
Learn what the hurdles you encounter really mean, discover through the trials you have suffered through what attributes you need to work on to reform your bad habits and internalize your positive characteristics by reading The Problem is the Solution: 7 Life Complications Sent to Test and Teach You.
The spirits tell us that one could summarize the Doctrine of Spiritism as the Golden Rule. If you always follow the dictum, “Do unto others as you would have them do unto you”, you have achieved the lion’s share of what the spirit realm, and Jesus himself, have been trying to teach us for the last two or three thousand years. The problem is the majority of people ask themselves, why should I follow the Golden Rule? It may make my conscience feel serene, for a moment or two, but it sure as heck doesn’t put food on the table. Ignoring it put lots of food on the proverbial table and other luxuries as well.
Everyone knows the fastest way to get rich is to take money from other people. Honest methods tend to be slow and sure, but nothing beats a dishonest or unscrupulous method for speeding up the process to drain capital from the hapless suckers into your own bucket. Sure, a pang of guilt may strike every now and then, but living the life of luxury more than makes up for the temporary discomfort.
The Law of Affinity is the answer. It provides the entire backstory, the complete process that controls your life on earth and in the spirit world. It remembers every deed, every slight, and every deceitful and insincere act that you have either thought of or committed. Somehow, I have no idea how; your baggage is tagged with your name on it. And the only way to relieve yourself of the paper trail of fines that are following you is to pay them.
The Law of Affinity is the enforcer. It tracks and categorizes your past actions and deposits you exactly where you belong. Oh the injustice! I am not sure about you, but I hate it when anyone says you get what you deserve. I always think that the other person should get theirs first and leave me alone long enough for my paperwork to get lost.
This Divine Law, this immutable law, associates us with others similar to us. In other words, to reverse paraphrase the Golden Rule, we are done to what we have done to others. Hence, if we were criminals, we are put on earth with some of our accomplices, so we may collectively figure out the wisdom of accumulating enemies. If we were basically decent stock, we will be allowed to be raised and supported by others like us, thus helping us on our way to spiritual enlightenment.
There are many variations, a reprobate may be allotted to a good family, to give her or him a decent start in life, then will be presented with a harrowing set of trials to determine if she or he will make honorable free-will decisions. Or a decent fellow may be selected as the only son of a couple who robbed him of his rightful inheritance in a past life, so he may reclaim it when his parents die in a tragic accident. The bottom line, is that everything we did all comes back to us.
One may ask, if this is so how could we improve? Wouldn’t it be tougher in such difficult circumstances? Could a poor soul, who has much to learn, in the spirit world amongst ill-intentioned spirits or on earth in a mafia-like family, actually rise above the muck and modify his or her behavior? The answer is yes, it is possible, it is challenging but it can be done.
It is conceivable to improve in the worst of conditions because of the gift from God that we all have embedded within us. The gift of a conscience. Implanted in our spirit and in our physical brain is the entire set of Divine Laws and a detector when we violate one. When we start out as primitive beings, we gleefully ignore the warning bells and whistles. Gradually we notice that it is better to heed the signals we give ourselves than to ignore them.
As we accumulate experiences over thousands, if not tens of thousands of years, we build up a library of interpretations, so we may fully understand the nuances in every situation and select the truest course of action. At some point, for all of us have started from a deep hole we have dug ourselves by our intransigence; we grasp the concept that by following our inner detector a better life is possible. From that humble beginning we commence the climb upward and outward.
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